17  Apr
Living Simple

“It is vain to do with more what can be done with less” -William of Occam

Ahmed and I started a great new initiative, to live a more simple life. Realize this doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time to simplify ones life depending on how much you got going on. We decided it would be best to start the process off by going through each and every thing in our apartment. We took out things that we hadn’t used in the past year or simply did not need. We further separated the items into piles of donation, selling on Craigslist, and garbage (which was further separated into recyclables). Yesterday we dropped a big donation off to “Penny Wise,” a thrift store where all proceeds go to DuPage Children’s Hospital.

Next thing we did was clean out our email inboxes, and categorized folders or labels in which we placed important emails. We also unsubscribed to low priority mailing lists which usually wastes our time. And lastly, we sat down and discussed an action plan for other things we would like to simplify in our life, such as eating.

Going through this process made me realize that having more “stuff” actually makes you busier in cleaning, taking care of and looking after these things. This in turn takes away from the precious time us housewives or working moms have to spend quality time doing things we enjoy.

We all like having nice things, but my philosophy is buy things of good quality that you really really like and just keep it for a long time. There is no need to have 5 pairs of black shoes and 3 spring jackets. At the end it’s just more to handle.

Less is more.

Posted by admin, filed under Productivity. Date: April 17, 2008, 12:43 am | 4 Comments »

My husband emailed me this wonderful story about a man memorizing the Quran in less than two months. Yes, you read that correctly, less than two months! It is truly an encouraging and inspiring story for those of us who long to memorize the Book of Allah. This story was so good it was worth sharing…Enjoy.

When will I see you as a Haafidh?

In the Name of Allâh, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful

Shaykh Yasir Salamah
I recently heard an incredibly amazing account told by Shaykh Yasir Salamah, one of the leading Imams and recitors of Egypt. In his audio tape ‘When will I see you as a Haafidh?’ he speaks of the true account of Muhammad, a brother who after attending a workshop on memorising Qur’aan and utilising all the available mediums, went on to memorise the entire Qur’aan within just 50 days (i.e 2 months)

Within 2 months?!

Yes. Within 2 months. This is his account and he says:

“I declared a state of Jihad upon my soul and put death before my eyes. I made an intention to memorise the Noble Qur’aan. So I abandoned telephone calls and unnecessary visits, and I changed all the negative thoughts associated with hifdh (memorisation) to positive and practical ones e.g. When a thought came to me saying ‘I can’t do it!’ I’d say, ‘I can do it.’ If it said, ‘My memory is weak!’ I’d say ‘I take pleasure in having a great memory.’

I chose the masjid as the place of my hifdh as it preserves three:

1. The eyes

2. The ears

3. The tongue

I followed a specific dietary program consisting of eating dates, fruits and honey - and fasting helped me a great deal in that. I used to wake up before salaat al-Fajr by 2 and a half hours and I slept 2 hours after ‘Isha. I used to wake up for Tahajjud (the night prayer), prolonging my sujood wherein I would call upon Allaah ta’alaa to ease for me my affair. I would also seek forgiveness 100 times.

I began to memorise 5 pages and would recite them in the Sunnah prayers of Fajr. After salaat al-Fajr, I would begin the memorisation of 5 new pages and at the end, I would recite them in the 2 raka’ahs of salaat al-Duhaa, all the time thanking Allaah for easing the memorisation.

I would perfect the recitation of what I had memorised by listening to tapes of one of the recitors. I would read about the qiraa’ah in books or via the Muqaddimah al-Jazariyyah (poem on the ahkam of tajweed).

After salaat al-Dhuhr, I would repeat everything that I had memorised previously beginning from the 1st Juz, until salaat al-’Asr. After the ‘Asr prayer, I would repeat the new portion of hifdh and the juz before. After the Maghrib prayer, I would prepare the recitation of 10 new pages and it was only after salaat al-’Isha that I’d review the Qur’aan with my teacher, may Allaah reward him well.

Before retiring to bed, I would listen to all that I memorised in the day from cassettes and I would be sitting for 6 continuous hours, without any boredom or feeling tired. In the 1st week, I would sit for 6 hours, memorising and revising. In the 2nd week, I would sit for 8 hours. In the 3rd week, it was 10 hours and in the 4th week, it was 12 hours. In the last 10 days, I was sitting for 14 hours memorising and revising.

The hardest times for me were when it came to sleeping and eating. I ardently wished that the period of sleep would end quickly so that I could start my hifdh of the Noble of Qur’aan. Everytime I began to read the Qur’aan and memorise, I felt such delight and enjoyment that I had never felt before. Du’a was an important factor for me before and after hifdh. I would memorise a page whilst sitting down and then repeat it whilst walking. My teacher played an important role in encouraging me, in revision, in correcting me and benefiting me in terms of Tajweed.

In the last week, on the night of 20th Ramadan, only 4 and a half juz remained until completion of hifdh. So I turned to Allaah to open up my way and ease it for me. I went on to memorise it in 6 days with the Help of Allaah.

Laylatul-Qadr came, the night of delight and happiness - it was like a wedding night to me. My completion of hifdh took place between Maghrib and ‘Isha in the masjid with the Imam and those in I’tikaaf. We began the khatma (reciting from beginning till end of the Book). In the end, during the du’aa, my heart opened up greatly and I began to weep like never before. It was the most beautiful hour of my life. Allaah had honoured me with the memorisation of His Book.

During the du’aa, I remembered a dream I had more than 10 years ago… I was a Mu’adhin of a mosque and after Fajr salaah, I sat remembering Allaah in the mosque. I felt sleepy so I took a nap in the middle of the mosque, and behold! I found myself amidst a gathering. A powerful ray of light descended from the sky down to the middle of the masjid. From that light came many angels and between them were 2 big Angels. One of them turned towards me and took me to the light. I entered along with the 2 angels. I then found myself on top of a large green tree - I began to climb it in the companionship of the 2 angels. We found angels standing by the door of the 1st heaven. They said to me ‘Where are you going?’ They opened up a book and said, ‘We don’t have your name with us, so climb onwards to the top.’ And likewise, all the time (through each heaven), they said the same thing to me.

Upon arriving at the 7th heaven, we reached the end of the tree. I found angels standing at the door and they said, ‘Are you Muhammad?’ I said, ‘Yes.’ They said, ‘Enter, for the Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam) wants you.’ I said to the 2 angels that were with me ‘Come in with me.’ They said, ‘We can’t enter. But we will wait for you.’ So I entered Jannah and behold, I saw therein what no eye has seen, no ear has heard and had never entered in the heart of Man. Angels were surrounding me and there was a door, on top of it was written (There is no God but Allaah and Muhammad is His Messenger. Al-Firdaws Paradise).

The Angels opened the door and I entered. Before me was the Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam) sitting at the top end and beside him were men, some that I recognised and some that I didn’t. In front of him were a very large group of men, women and children. They wore white clothes, and they were so many that they had a beginning but no end. All of them were reciting Qur’aan.

The Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam) called me and I went up to him. He got up and made some space for me. I kissed him and he sat me down besides him. I asked him ‘Who are these people O Messenger of Allah?’ He said, ‘These are the people who have memorised the Book of Allaah `azza wa jall.’

Inshaa’Allaah ta’ala, the dream ended in truth. I never spoke to anyone about it until the night that I completed the memorisation of the Qur’aan.”

Allahu Akbar, if this is not tawfeeq from Allaah and determination… I don’t know what is!

Quran

Posted by admin, filed under Hope. Date: April 12, 2008, 12:17 am | 5 Comments »

I headed to bed last night at 10:00 pm in light of waking up bright and early the next morning ready to start off the week nice and strong.  I got into bed, snuggled into my soft blanket, and as I was closing my eyes a sudden thought came to me…would this be the last time I feel the comfort of my bed, or the last time I feel the presence of my husband next to me, or the last time I hear the soft breathing of my daughter a few feet away?

The thought of not waking up the next morning is quite daunting.  I am no where near ready for the next journey.  I have so much to do to improve myself as a Muslimah, so much to do to even be able to smell the fragrance of Jannah.  The Sahaba who were mashallah so strong in their deen were scared they wouldn’t  attain Jannah, so who am I…there is so much for me to do!

It’s scary to think that we go about living in this duniya getting all ‘comfortable’ and ’settled’ into life.  But we need to realize that this life is a mere pit stop in a long journey ahead.  We will all have to face Allah SWT on the day of judgment and answer to Him for all that we have done.

We don’t know when our time will come.  The best thing to do is live every day, every hour, every second as if it is your last.  When we do this we will make sure the prayer we do is full of kushoo’ (sincerity) and every du’a we make is accompanied with tears.  We will live to please Allah and with the goal of attaining Jannah.

We need to maintain a balance of hope and fear of Allah SWT and remember to ask yourself…

Are you ready to meet Allah?

The Prophet (saw) advised to: “Take benefit of five before five: Your youth before your old age, your health before your sickness, your wealth before your poverty, your free time before you are preoccupied, and your life before your death
(Narrated by Ibn Abbas and reported by Al Hakim)

Posted by admin, filed under Reflections. Date: April 7, 2008, 7:42 pm | 4 Comments »

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